Dear Annie: Over a year and a half ago, my brother abruptly quit his job, planning to take just a three-month sabbatical. He had substantial savings, so we all supported his decision to take some time off.
However, those three months have now stretched into a year and a half. My brother, in his early 30s, still lives at home with our elderly parents. I’ve spoken to my father about the situation, but he’s too soft-spoken to tell my brother that it’s time to step up. This extended break is starting to drain my father’s finances, as my brother isn’t contributing at all.
I suspect my brother’s behavior stems from deeper issues like low self-esteem and lack of purpose.
Annie, I’m married and have my own family, home and career. If my parents and other brothers won’t address this, does the responsibility fall on me to have this difficult conversation with him? -- Burnt-Out Brother

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