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Asking Eric: Am I wrong for wanting to back out of Mexican vacation now that friend included her son?
Asking Eric: Am I wrong for wanting to back out of Mexican vacation now that friend included her son?
Asking Eric: Am I wrong for wanting to back out of Mexican vacation now that friend included her son?

Published on: 08/22/2025

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Am I wrong for backing out because that’s not what I agreed to? Is it selfish to expect a trip with just your friends? Getty Images.

Dear Eric: I had a Mexican vacation planned with three very good friends and our spouses. My one friend goes there quite often and was going to be there an additional two weeks after the week we were all to be together.

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