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Oregon ranks high in yet another Valentine’s Day category, according to study
Oregon ranks high in yet another Valentine’s Day category, according to study
Oregon ranks high in yet another Valentine’s Day category, according to study

Published on: 01/23/2025

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An Oregon welcome sign along Interstate 5 near the state's southern border.

Just as we’re all getting used to the new year, Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. You can tell by the grocery stores that have cleared out their Christmas items and loaded up shelves with Conversation Hearts, heart-shaped knick-knacks, chocolate assortments, and other dentally challenging sweet treats.

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/entertainment/2025/01/oregon-ranks-high-in-yet-another-valentines-day-category-according-to-study.html

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