Dear Annie: My brother regularly calls to blame me for my strained relationship with our sister, without knowing my side of the story. For my own peace of mind, I keep my distance from her, though I still send her Christmas gifts, birthday cards and other greetings -- which she ignores and never reciprocates.
My sister is a school counselor, and she seems to know exactly what she’s doing. What my brother doesn’t know are the betrayals I’ve endured from her over the years: She once had a relationship with my boyfriend, accessed my bank account and stole items from my home.
Despite all this, she has perfected the role of the innocent victim, and my brother is completely taken in by it. They’re very close, which makes it easy for him to see me as the one causing the rift.
We’re all senior citizens now, and his constant blaming has become a real source of stress for me. How should I handle this? -- Left Out Sister by Choice

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