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Dear Abby: Was I wrong to feel cast out when I was seated alone during big family celebration?
Dear Abby: Was I wrong to feel cast out when I was seated alone during big family celebration?
Dear Abby: Was I wrong to feel cast out when I was seated alone during big family celebration?

Published on: 03/21/2025

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The room was full and there were no other seats for me, so the event coordinator set up a table for me in the hall, by myself, next to the washrooms.

DEAR ABBY: My husband puts everyone first before me.

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2025/03/dear-abby-was-i-wrong-to-feel-cast-out-when-i-was-seated-alone-during-big-family-celebration.html

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