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Dear Abby: Reconnecting with negative former co-worker didn’t go well. Can I just dump her?
Dear Abby: Reconnecting with negative former co-worker didn’t go well. Can I just dump her?
Dear Abby: Reconnecting with negative former co-worker didn’t go well. Can I just dump her?

Published on: 03/23/2025

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Their first lunch was bad. The second was even worse.

DEAR ABBY: I recently reconnected with a colleague from work. We were friendly, but not really what I would call friends. We reconnected on social media and have had lunch a few times. The problem is, she has become a very negative, aggressive, angry person.

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