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Dear Abby: My 2-year affair ended when my lover saw he needed to be a role model to his kids
Dear Abby: My 2-year affair ended when my lover saw he needed to be a role model to his kids
Dear Abby: My 2-year affair ended when my lover saw he needed to be a role model to his kids

Published on: 03/26/2025

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Seeing the results of cheating in a relationship has her lover rethinking his choices.

DEAR ABBY: For two years, I’ve been having an affair with my married neighbor, “Reed.”

News Source : https://www.oregonlive.com/advice/2025/03/dear-abby-my-2-year-affair-ended-when-my-lover-saw-he-needed-to-be-a-roll-model-to-his-kids.html

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