DEAR ABBY: After I retired and moved to a beach town, I invited my brother and sister-in-law to visit. They said they had a really good time, set up a tentative return visit and seemed appreciative. I’m used to living alone, so having people always around was uncomfortable for me. They are retired but work part time.
One of my brother’s jobs is with the company of a friend of mine where he had done some work in the past. I reconnected them, and my brother really enjoys it. But now he’s pressuring me to invite that friend and his wife to come here and stay at my place.
I think it’s out of line for anyone to suggest I invite anyone else to stay here. I wouldn’t have invited my brother and sister-in-law except that he’s family. (He actually gets on my nerves when I’m around him for long.) I ignored his suggestion and will continue unless he brings it up again. Is a nonresponse acceptable? -- HESITANT HOST IN TEXAS

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